Carter Lowe Creator, entrepreneur, and self-care advocate
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Why do girls make you wait for sex

Some girls break down for a long time and do not give, while others spread their legs on the first date. Women told how long they made men wait for sex and why. Indiscreet answers about sex from girls For some, sex is acceptable on the day of the meeting, others cannot open up to their chosen one for a long time, and still others do not follow any standards. When is it appropriate to have sex and how long should you wait for the first time? Several girls frankly answered these questions.

“I've been dating my current boyfriend for five years, and slept with him on our first date. The chemistry between us was crazy strong. In the midst of the action, I pulled away and said something incoherent, like “maybe not worth it,” to which he suggested that we play just a little. Exactly thirty seconds elapsed before I regained consciousness and allowed us to have sex. I don't think there's any reason to wait if you don't want to."

“I made him wait three months, and I don't think it's because I didn't want to have sex with him. I really wanted this, but I was looking for a serious relationship and I wanted to make sure that he was sufficiently attracted to me. It turned out to be true, and we have been together for almost three years. The best relationship I've ever had and we're thinking about marriage."

“Longest? Five months, but I parted with him, then converged. I would like to sleep with him on the first day we met, then I would not waste time on him. We dated for about three months after sex, and really were not compatible in bed.

“Um, maybe a week… I have no preconceptions about sex, and if I want to sleep with someone and he wants to sleep with me too, then I go and do it. I think I waited about a week before having sex with my current boyfriend because he was out of town for a couple of days. We've been dating for a year, by the way."

“He's still waiting, but we're actually looking forward to our wedding in six months. We met a year ago. Neither of us is a virgin, but we felt we shouldn't have sex before marriage. It brought us closer as a couple."

“I got married for the first time very young, and he and I were virgins. We dated for a year without sex, and when we got married, the sex was amazing after we learned how to do it. We divorced after five years, but we are friends. I do not regret that I waited for sex before marriage. Now, however, waiting is not so important to me."

“My boyfriend was willing to wait up to seven months before having sex, but I lasted up to two. I would never make anyone wait that long. We had great sex that night, during which he said, "I can't believe this is happening," and it was very romantic. We've been together for almost a year and I think each of us may have found the perfect partner."

“I never made anyone wait, but at the same time, I didn't sleep with a bunch of people. If I care about someone, I sleep with him right away, or I never have sex with him. It works for me."

“I am not a fan of double standards in this matter. How long should I keep someone waiting and why? Guys also have to keep me waiting? Will I look like a whore if I don't make someone wait long enough? People should consider these questions rather than asking how long a guy should wait for sex." [sixteen].