Carter Lowe Creator, entrepreneur, and self-care advocate
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The tips you need to be successful today

We will tell you something that other motivational, false and delusional articles do not say. Life is too short to put off dreams for the future and wait forever. If you are tired, unhappy or in doubt, then it's time to read this article.

Let's have some garlic. You have read hundreds of motivational articles that claim you will be rich and happy tomorrow. But all this is a lie. Life is much more complicated and bears little resemblance to movie stories. But this does not mean that you cannot be happy and successful very soon.

Tips you need to be successful today

someone gets everything at once. Lots of money, dream job, perfect relationship, lots of travel and a huge house abroad. It all drives us crazy and we feel miserable.

Stop sitting in rose-colored glasses and dreaming about nonsense. The truth is, you can't have everything all at once. But you can get it gradually. Step by step.

An expectation differs from a goal in that the latter is real. Make waiting a goal, and then break your goals down into steps. Take courses to get your dream job. Ask a girl out on a date to build a good relationship.

2. Choose the path and discard doubts

Life gives us a thousand opportunities that we get lost. We think about what goal and path is better to choose. This applies to the choice of profession, plans for the future, personal life. We do not know what will be better and how to proceed.

A large number of options leads to the fact that we do nothing, we are in limbo and doubt.

Eternal torment will not allow you to focus on one path and goal. In life, you need to make a decision, choose a path and a goal. You can not sit on several chairs all the time. Make your choice and forget about 1000 other options. There is no correct answer. There are no perfect solutions. There is only the opportunity to choose a path and see what happens.

3. There will never be much money

No matter how much you earn, you will always miss a little. As our income grows, our demands and appetites grow. If as a student we needed just a little bit of money to be happy, now even a suitcase of dollars will not be enough.

Material matters will not be resolved by themselves. Low wages and hopeless work will never allow you to exist with dignity. This is where you need to change jobs.

Stop borrowing, installments or credit. Banks cash in on you, driving you into bondage. Stop buying things you don't really need. Stop throwing dust in the eyes with an expensive car, clothes and a phone. Stop chasing expensive entertainment and travel that make you starve for a whole year.

You need to live within your means, not get into loans and learn how to save. Money saved is money earned. Learn to live a full life without a lot of money and material goods. This will be your true freedom.

4. High expectations are shit

Stop thinking about things you'll never achieve. Disappointment and dissatisfaction with life come when dreams differ greatly from reality. High expectations make you unhappy.

Review your dreams and goals. In 90% of cases, you already have almost everything in order to be happy. Learn to be happy without 1000 conditions and requirements. This is freedom.