Carter Lowe Creator, entrepreneur, and self-care advocate
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Rules are not a gentleman

Do you still date girls, court them, give them presents, and try to seduce them? Quit this gentleman, bro. I am not kidding.

Women convince men that we are anxious males. But it's not us walking down the street showing off our breasts and ass. We don't look like representatives of an ancient profession in nightclubs. We do not hint at the possibility of sex by conversation and action. We do not post erotic photos on social networks. We don't demonstrate a desire to get sexual attention at any cost. After that, are men still the sexiest sex?

By their behavior, women awaken the male in a man, but then demand gentlemanly treatment. It's easier to control a man, putting pressure on his pride and nobility. As soon as you start playing the noble knight - write wasted. Getting a woman and sex will become incredibly difficult. You will have to pass tests, seek favors and fulfill whims. Do not get involved in these gentlemen's games, bro, where you obviously have no trump cards in your hands. Play not according to the rules of morality and gentlemanship, but according to your masculine ones.

“A gentleman is a man who, after inviting a girl to his house to look at the prints, shows her the prints,” said Evan Ezar. But what kind of gentleman is this? It's weak or impotent. Show her not an engraving, but how good you are in bed.

Not a gentleman's rules

1. Not a gentleman makes eye contact

Confident eye contact is important in non-verbal communication. When meeting and communicating, look the girl in the eyes, even if it seems not very decent. Many men rarely look into the beautiful eyes of women, which conveys their insecurity, fears and tightness. Don't look left, right, or up. In the most self-confident manner, look into the depths of her eyes.

2. Not a gentleman has a rough voice

A high voice and its hesitation is a bad thing. The voice is good when it is deep, velvety and rough. Record your voice on the recorder, and then listen. You will be very surprised by your sound. Now start correcting your voice. Talk to the girl confidently and calmly, as if you have already fucked her.

3. Not a gentleman does not apologize

Never back down or apologize for anything. As soon as you start admitting that you are wrong, you will have big problems. You lose her respect and you miss the opportunity to prove yourself. If you said something, then stand your ground, despite the criticism. This is called point of view.

4. Not a gentleman honest in his desires

Most women are not ready for simple, bold and straightforward honesty. Although they want, they are afraid to hear the wishes of a man. No gentleman walks around and around. He claims his sexual appetites and his right to use a woman's body.

5. Not a gentleman is not good

Why does a woman start to like a man? Because they are cute and nice. Why does he stop being cute so quickly? Because they are cute and nice. Such people are boring. No gentleman pleases a woman. He does not pay all the bills and whims of a woman. He is not her father, mother or sponsor. Not a gentleman does not embody all women's desires into reality, he implements his plans.

6. Not a gentleman does not try to please

Stop trying to "impress" a woman with your exploits. Don't play nice guy and gentleman if you're not. Girls do not like assholes, but even less do they like suckers who please them in everything. Be yourself.

7. Not a gentleman is not afraid of rejection

You will never be able to please all the girls you meet, much less get them into bed. They may refuse or show negativity. You cannot prevent it. But no gentleman is not afraid when a woman gives him a lapel. He doesn't need to save face and worry about it. A quick rejection saves a lot of time and money. This prevents driving by the nose and being used by a woman. It is better to get rejected quickly than after a month of manipulation.


8. Not a gentleman resistant to criticism

Be prepared for criticism, reproaches and negative responses. Use humor as a shield and irony as a weapon.

An excerpt from Gone With the Wind by Margaret Mitchell:

“Sir, you are not a gentleman,” she snapped. "A very subtle observation," he remarked cheerfully. “Just like you, miss, not lady.”

9. Not a gentleman is provocative

Use irony and humor in communication. Be sexually provocative. Not only make the girl laugh, but also make fun of her. Keep compliments to a minimum. A large amount of flattery, empty chatter, confessions of sympathy and everyday life repels the girl.

10. It's not a gentleman who wants sex

Your goal is sex, but she's in a relationship. Don't confuse gender roles. Focus on showing the woman you want to fuck. In fact, most relationships between a man and a woman are just protracted casual sex. Perhaps she will become your next girlfriend or even wife. But not today. Today you will have sex with her.

Do you still date girls, court them, give gifts and try to seduce them? Quit this gentleman, bro. I am not kidding. Don't play stupid games of gentlemanly. They have long since died out. Don't be a gentleman. Be bold, provocative and sexy.