Male femininity or sexual romantic

Why do women fall in love with writers and poets, musicians and singers? Why do they need romance, emotions and a fairy prince? A little about male femininity and sexual romance.

Perhaps you can write dissertations on why women fall in love with writers and poets, musicians and singers? In the living and the departed. Why do they need this virtual romance? And why are those men who meet in life compared with the heroes who have settled in their hearts? Some will say that it is from loneliness, others from womanish romance, still others from unfulfillment, fourth from an unsuccessful personal life, fifth from girlish dreams of a beautiful fairy-tale prince... But this is not entirely true.

“You are the most feminine man I know” Ya. L. Vishnevsky

Women should be feminine, and men should be masculine. Everything is simple and seems to be very correct. Besides, this is exactly what we expect from each other. However, in real life, men can admire a courageous woman and find some attractiveness and even sexuality in this. Perhaps they are easier to live with. Yes, and Russian literature did its best: it gave the world a strikingly vivid image of a Russian woman who stops a galloping horse and enters a burning hut. At the same time, I want to ask, where was the man at that moment? However, the question is more rhetorical than concrete.

But there are also feminine men. Of course, when there is too much of this quality in them, they cause contempt among their fellows and irritation among the ladies. Femininity does not seem to suit the macho, gentleman, cowboy, superman, sex symbol, astronaut, professor and locksmith. "You're a boy, not a girl!" - brings up a happy childhood. “I am a man!!” shouts the vanity of a young man. "You are like a woman!!!" - beats on the spot the opinion of adult representatives of the stronger sex.

But in the issue of femininity there are many very subtle nuances that few people think about.

However, it is they who rehabilitate the normal portion of femininity that real and very courageous men have - those who know how to love and, most importantly, understand women.

He just lives in harmony with the masculine and feminine side of his psyche. And this is the high art that his soul creates.

The feminine side of the personality

Some men can understand women and love them the way they want it - gently, caringly, patiently, not selfish and courageous, while others are not. Therefore, happy and not very happy love happens in the world, as well as one in which there is not a drop of happiness.

The trick is that such a man does not suppress the feminine side of the psyche, which is given initially, but skillfully uses its "gifts". It can be comprehended as an interesting book, perhaps the wisest textbook, or better, a colorful guidebook in which almost EVERYTHING is written about a woman: as about another country where there are so many interesting things. There is something left to unravel in it. Learn the big secrets hidden in the heart and the little secrets of the body. And love! But does anyone dare to call such a man a woman?

Soul

What does SHE feel now and what does she think? What clouds is it in? And what does he want, but he does not dare to say? There are not always answers to these questions. But you can try to take the place of a woman. Mentally, very quietly and completely unnoticed. Touch her sadness and anxiety, feel her joy, remember tenderness, live moments of pain. No sentimentality, but completely natural. And this is what some men get if they do not corrode the feminine side of the personality and are not embarrassed by it.

Perhaps you can write dissertations on why women fall in love with writers and poets, musicians and singers? In the living and the departed. Why do they need this virtual romance? And why are those men who meet in life compared with the heroes who have settled in their hearts? Some will say that it is from loneliness, others from womanish romance, still others from unfulfillment, fourth from an unsuccessful personal life, fifth from girlish dreams of a beautiful fairy-tale prince... But this is not entirely true.

It's just that the authors of literary works made it clear that they looked into the soul of a woman (according to some, a worthless occupation for a man), opened it for themselves and understood everything in it. This means - defended and even put on a pedestal. And their music and voices sounded like her most secret dreams and words. And, of course, these men, many of whom were not handsome, impressed with their mind, which for centuries women have considered sexy.

Body

Details of feelings and centimeters of the body are equally important in moments of love and in the routine of everyday life. Of course, a man and a woman can only exchange bodies in comedy films. This provocation demonstrates the acquisition of an interesting and rather amusing experience. But a man in love and loving, who in sex shows not just technically high aerobatics, but bestows love and inspires love, can do without such an almost real extreme. Because he did not "turn off" the feminine side of his personality and did not forget that he is a man!

He

• He will enable a woman to be herself. She will not need to think about how good she is in intimacy, because with him she will always be delightful. And he will praise her "flaws", because he knows all her secrets, everything that she is embarrassed to say. He already understands that she wants to be the best for him. And indeed he becomes such with such a nose, eyes, lips, figure, voice, hair, gait…

• He knows where to insist and where to retreat. When "no" means "yes...", and when "no" - it's still "no". He does not need to be explained what it means to be "out of shape, not ready, not today, not that moment." After all, one woman wants to come-see-win, scoop up in an armful, carry it and not let it go, at least until the morning. And the other needs a subtle game, flirting, expectation, anticipation.

• When every meeting or conversation is a prearranged improvisation. When, at one glance or a word, he understands how a woman prepared for this moment, how many times she changed clothes, changed her makeup and hairstyle, just to appear in all her glory. How much time I thought about every word, every topic of conversation, in order to be interesting for him. How much I thought about how to behave in order to hint at my desires, but not give them away. And he already knows it. And he is very grateful for all the efforts, he will appreciate them and will appreciate them, because she tried for him, and his aesthetic perception is satisfied.

• This man, quite naturally, will offer such a relationship scenario in which a woman will certainly receive an Oscar for her leading role. Because she will be able to fully open up, fly on the wings of love, without thinking about what was or what will be. For her, there will be no barriers in anything, and even more so - a reason for negative thoughts about herself.

• He will not give dishonest promises, will not give hope, because with some inner instinct he knows how painful it is when he did not come at the appointed time, did not call.

• He won't let her get cold or uncomfortable.

• He knows how much a woman is hurt by rude words, so he will not make a scandal in a public place if someone inadvertently hurt him.

• He will not let her offend and will be tactful himself. He will not comment on the appearance of his companion, seeing how she tried, but maybe she missed something a little this time.

Author: Anna Martynova superstyle.ru