Carter Lowe Creator, entrepreneur, and self-care advocate
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Inner Sexuality

In the sexuality of men and women there is an external component, which consists in a hot appearance, but there is also an internal sexuality. Some people seem ordinary at first sight until you start talking to them. They are so hot and sexy inside that it is impossible to resist their seductive charms. How to develop your inner sexuality?

“I don't need a bed to prove my femininity. I can be sexy just picking apples from a tree or standing in the rain.” Audrey Hepburn

Some people look like a picture, but you look at their face, or you talk, how it's all gone. Immediately their sexuality and hot appearance are devalued. Why is that? All their sexuality is external and simulated, from which it turns back after a minute of communication.

External sexuality without internal spark and passion is worth nothing. It's like multiplying by zero. It doesn't matter how hot you look on the outside and what clothes you wear if there is no inner fire. Usually this light is visible in the eyes when impudent devils play.

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External sexuality

External sexuality means the attractiveness of the physical body and appropriate behavior that causes attraction in the opposite sex. They are different for men and women.

External female sexuality is a chiseled figure, an angelic face, defiant clothes, a deep neckline, beautiful clothes, lacy lingerie and a vicious appearance. Defiant sexuality shines through in behavior, gait, voice and gestures. The girl behaves promisingly when everything seems possible. This hot image that causes attraction in men.

External male sexuality is an athletic figure, muscles, even posture and masculine appearance. In male behavior, girls love intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, confidence, vigor, tenderness and unpredictability. Girls love strong men who know what they want from life.

All this is external sexuality that can be pumped, but this is not enough for success with the opposite sex.

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Internal sexuality

Some average people, in the most ordinary clothes, can be very popular with the opposite sex. They are like a magnet for others. They feel invisible charm, charm, charm and sexuality. They seem to be doing nothing, but those around them are ready to fall at their feet in order to surrender to love.

Sexuality is not a stereotype of a dirty girl or gigolo from movies. This is not protruding breasts and stockings with a short skirt for girls. These are not relief muscles and the Greek profile in men. It's something more. True sexuality comes from within. The true sexuality of a person lies in his inner state. Internal sexuality is a natural state laid down by genes.

You can torment yourself in the gym, go under the knife of plastic surgeons, rehearse phrases, learn to walk, correct behavior, train in pick-up or seductive methods. But it will be a departure from your true sexuality. It will be an artificial game that can be cracked at once.

A person can be beautiful and sexy in appearance, but repulsive in the first minutes of communication. If the internal state is distorted by complexes, fears, insecurity, resentment, failure and envy. If you are trying to meet some standards and be perfect. If there are inflated expectations, demands and dissatisfaction with a partner. All this will reduce the effort to nothing.

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How to develop inner sexuality?

Get rid of everything that prevents you from being yourself. Prejudices, resentment, someone else's opinion, patterns. All this just throws you off. You don't have to follow fashion and Instagram trends. In the modern world of gloss, girls and men have become fake. They are somehow equally sterile and soulless.

Love yourself and praise, not hate and scold for the slightest mistake. Recognize yourself as a person. Be yourself, even if someone doesn't like you. You don't have to prove anything to anyone or try to stand out. Be yourself and don't pretend to be someone else.

Love your looks despite your flaws. Praise yourself in the mirror and support morally in difficult times. Go in for sports. This will make not only more beautiful, but also more confident. When we run, go to the gym, or work out at home, we feel different. We begin to believe in ourselves, love and respect. This forms the inner strength, confidence and sexuality that are felt by others.

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Sexuality lies in harmony with oneself. Follow your desires, goals and passions. Be sincere and open. Be natural and casual. It's far sexier than an arrogant scoreboard or bad acting.

Keep it simple and people will reach out to you. Fascinatingly easier. I no longer have the strength to look at arrogant, pretentious and arrogant faces. A person may be handsome, but the face and behavior are repulsive. No one likes arrogant princesses and narcissistic narcissists.

Let your sexuality come out. Be kinder, more liberated, bolder, more confident. Don't be afraid to flirt, use charm, compliment, flirt, joke or laugh. Allow yourself to be yourself and enjoy communication with the opposite sex. When you get high from communication, it is very sexy and hot.

A person's natural inner sexuality turns on when he stops suppressing himself. When a person surrenders to the will of his sexuality, life becomes easier. You yourself know what you want from life and from your soul mate. You boldly declare yourself, not exchanging for trifles.

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Don't try to be bland or artificially sexy. Behave naturally and naturally, like an adult child. Show your character, temperament, passion, aggressiveness, kindness, tenderness, impudence. Don't be afraid to seem a little spoiled or vulgar. Don't be afraid of your dark side. Do not be afraid to tease, show irony and tempt. Do not be afraid to excite other people's desires and inflame attraction. It makes you multifaceted, real and sexy.

Do you want to be popular with the opposite sex? It is not enough to look good and attractive. It is important to open and awaken your inner sexuality. Then you will be adored and loved.