Often we find ourselves in a situation where we stop in doubt and do not know what to do next. We need to make a decision, choose from something, or decide on a future path in life. How to make the right choice that will make our future brighter?
“We don't choose the times. We can only decide how to live in the times that have chosen us.” Lord of the Rings
Do not even know what to do? As everyone knows. Each of us found ourselves in a difficult situation when it is required to choose our future path in life. But we doubt the choice, or do not present a plan for further actions at all.
Such doubts come to our mind regularly. From time to time we find ourselves in a difficult position when it is difficult to make a decision that will be correct. But not making a decision is not an option. This is the surest way to lose your life. You need to act in order to fully fulfill yourself.
How to get out of the impasse? You are not the first person to find yourself in a situation like this. Someone, once and somewhere has already been in your shoes. He not only was, but also came out of it, and now he has the necessary knowledge and experience. He definitely has a lot to learn.
Most likely, this has already been written in an article, filmed in a video or written in a book. There people shared their experience, their way and methods of solution. Find the information you need, and then use it to analyze your case and situation.
Use your own or someone else's experience. Evaluate the ways that have worked before. How have other people solved similar problems? What strategy was successful? Which strategy choice was wrong? What steps have you taken in this situation? What came of it?
Big data sample analysis makes the decision representative and maximally correct.
I don't know what to do next! Find the cause of your worries. Why do we want to end the relationship? Not for the reason that we want to be alone. We want to find a more suitable person with whom we will be happier. Why do we want to change jobs? Not for the reason that we are lazy and do not want to do anything. We want to find a job to our liking, where we will be appreciated.
Determine the ultimate goal of your desire. Why are you in this situation? What do you want? Once you define your ultimate goal, you will have a clear idea of the potential ways to achieve what you want. Dispel the fog.
make! Help!". Of course, it is difficult for one to make the right decision. Find the right people to discuss your difficulties with. Who is on your side and interested in your bright future. The way it will be component people with good life experience. Who will really listen and be ready to discuss your business.
When you start sharing with someone else, everything becomes clearer and more obvious. The interlocutor can give useful advice, or push to some kind of decision. Joint discussion will bring some understanding that previously eluded you. Discussing with other people will free you from indecision and help you make the right decision.
Sometimes it's not so hard to make a decision as nothing depends on you. Often circumstances are stronger than us when we find ourselves a small boat in a raging river. Don't know what to do next? Don't do anything. Let the situation resolve itself.
You cannot influence the situation, but you can influence how you react. Relax and don't worry too much. Prepare for the moment when you can take matters into your own hands again. Until then, there is nothing to worry about that is out of your control. Take advantage of this time to work on yourself. But always be ready to take up the oars at the right moment.
I don't know what to do in life at all! Sometimes it happens. If you don't know what to do, then start doing something. Use the Growth Hacking technique. What is Growth Hacking? This is an experimental form, when the maximum number of experiments is done in a short period of time.
You never know exactly what will work and what might come out? You can count, think and plan for a long time, but do nothing. It is much more efficient to do experiments and conduct experiments. Take a small step, make an attempt, grasp the possibility, taste the chance and create an opportunity. Try.
Take a small step. This will help get rid of the blocker, see new opportunities and give new chances that were previously hidden. Don't focus on perfection, the perfect solution, and the right choice. Do something useful, analyze, adjust the plan and take one more step.
Still not sure what to do next? Don't underestimate intuition. Often, intuition is based on our desires, beliefs, and values. The sheer volume of information and options confuses us. But it is intuition that suggests the right step towards dreams.
Sitting but not sure what to do in life and what to do next? This is a moral dead end. As the famous writers Arkady and Boris Strugatsky said: “A dead end is a great excuse to break down walls.” Stop waiting for a miracle. Take action.