How to motivate a woman to take care of herself, to be sexy and desirable? Many girls stop taking care of themselves when they start living together. They get fat, become sloppy and careless.
Today you still love her, but you don't want her anymore. You endured for a long time, turned a blind eye to how the appearance of your beloved is changing for the worse, but now you are ready to admit: your woman is no longer fire.
If at the time of your acquaintance she looked like she looks now, you would not ask her out on a date. And she does not seem to notice her fall on the sexy stairs.
She eats with gusto, has her hair done unpretentiously, cuts through the house in a nice, as it seems to her, homely suit. Lisping, as much as teeth reduces! Annoys.
Despite this, she is her own person: reliable, beloved. You don’t want to cheat on her: crawl on other people’s sheets, startle from unauthorized SMS at night, lie, dodge, feel like a scoundrel. All you want is for your woman to put herself in order and become outwardly the one you once fell for.
How to do it? How to stimulate a woman to take care of herself if she lives in happy ignorance of how unattractive her appearance has become for you?
I'll start with what you should never do. You can’t tell a woman that she has become ugly. Not in any form. There are no ways to delicately convey this idea to a woman.
You can choose words for a long time and, in the end, squeeze out of yourself: “Darling, when you were a little thinner, I liked you more.” The effect will be the same as if you said: "You are a pig that I do not have."
You will be offended. You won't be forgiven.
It is very likely that a woman will try to arouse your jealousy in order to prove that she is wanted in this form. However, do not expect changes for the better in appearance.
All that you will achieve with criticism is the development of an inferiority complex in your woman, which will greatly spoil the life of not only her, but also you. A woman will transfer her dissatisfaction with herself to you. The number of claims against you will increase threefold. Do you need it?
Then listen here.
The most competent way to push a woman to become beautiful is compliments. sincere. Frequent. Definitely - in fact.
Your woman perched for once on hairpins, do not be silent like a log. Tell her how much you like these particular shoes. About how disgusting her crocs are to you, shut up. Praise heels. With a high degree of probability, a woman will get up on them more often.
When your woman does the styling instead of the usual “spitting on her palms, smoothing her hair and scratching”, do not miss this moment: mark with admiration.
If she loses a kilo, have passionate sex with her. The more she loses weight, the more sophisticated you are in bed.
And so - in everything: from heels to weight.
If you respond to changes for the better in a woman's appearance, there will be more of these changes.
If you remain silent, she will decide that you do not notice her efforts, like cellulite, which means you can relax.
Clear? Do it, cho.
Author: Lena Miro