Some women are too good to be free and sleep alone. A detailed manual for the conquest of the female heart and body. How to fall in love with a woman?
If you genuinely love and care for a woman, and want to make sure that you can reciprocate, you can try to make a woman fall in love with you with the following steps. Although there are many generalizations here and it is best to consider how your girlfriend or lover would behave, nevertheless, these tips will help you start winning her heart.
1.1 Let her notice you. Do something that will make her notice you. Many women want a man who is strong but compassionate, who leads in relationships but also listens, who is confident but not selfish. Keep this in mind when trying to get her to notice you.
Show her that you care about other people. Volunteer in a canteen for the homeless, donate blood, help a friend in a difficult situation, organize a charity auction. Show her that there is more to you than meets the eye. She will be impressed by your generosity and wonder what else you have to offer.
Stand out from the crowd with something you're good at, preferably in her presence. What are you good at? It can be anything from tennis, rock climbing or football, to humor, mathematics and rhetoric. Whatever it is, stand out for your excellence in the industry. Calm confidence, not impudence, will help you to be noticed in any case.
Go out into the light. Remember: fortune favors the brave. If all you're doing is sitting in your room, chances are you're not using your time properly. And if you do not make mistakes at least sometimes, then you will never achieve results.
1.2 Take your time. Such things take time. Don't expect you to win her heart in a few days. Slowly but surely move towards your goal. Set realistic goals for yourself so that you don't get upset if she doesn't fall in love with you in the blink of an eye.
If she gives you her number, fine, but don't ask for it. Call when you get her number, but don't overdo it. Give her a chance to call you from time to time! Girls tend to like guys who at least pretend they have a lot of options.
1.3 Create a game plan. No, it does not need to be written down or painted on the board, as before an important football game. Think over the strategy of your behavior and you will have more chances to get her heart. I act randomly and most likely you will reduce your chances of success.
If you are in love with one girl, there is nothing wrong with trying to make her fall in love with you. When love overtakes us, we often feel helpless. It `s naturally.
If, however, you want to find love in general, try to communicate with several different women. You'll increase your chances of finding someone special, and giving up one won't hurt as much if you know you have other options. Here are some reasons for choosing this strategy:
Women, like men, compete in love. Maybe not exactly the same, but they really compete with others. If you look like an eligible bachelor, women will chase after you not only because they like you, but also because they want to beat other women.
You will have a clear idea of who you are looking for. We often don't know what we want until we see it. Go out in public and the chances that you will find a mate among strangers will be much higher than if you force yourself to date only those you know.
Hanging out with multiple women doesn't make you a womanizer. If you want to find love, date, but start a relationship with only one woman. Don't start a relationship with manipulation.
1.4 Try to get to know her better. Really find out who she is, what her goals are, what family she comes from. She will appreciate your interest in her person.
People like to talk about themselves. It's natural for them. Don't forget to participate in the conversation and talk about yourself, but also steer the conversation to topics that are interesting to her and you will find that it is much easier for you to communicate than it seems at first.
One way to continue the conversation is to ask her questions. Ask about her hobbies ("What do you like to do?"), her idols ("Who inspires you?"), and her goals ("What would you like to achieve in life?"), for example.
1.5 Look your best. Maybe you don't really care how you look, but women pay attention to it. Clothes and hygiene are not so important; with your appearance, you tell the world that you care about yourself, you understand what style is, and that you are confident in yourself.
2. Insinuate love
2.1 Give compliments from time to time. But still remember, guys, that less is better, but better if we are talking about compliments. You need to give exactly as many compliments as you need to understand that you are not just a friend to her, but not so much that she thinks that you are desperate to find a mate and expect compliments from her.
Compliment her skills and talents first. She received her appearance from nature, and she had to work hard on her achievements and talents. Give a compliment when some great trait of her character shows up.
If you want to compliment her appearance, avoid too explicit topics. Try to compliment about:
Eyes: “Your eyes are so pretty. Do your parents have them blue too?” Hairstyle: "Did you cut your hair? Short hair suits you." Smile: "Your smile is so contagious! Everyone, when you smile, I can't help but smile." Clothes: "What a beautiful dress, did you sew it yourself?"Style in general: "You have a unique style. You yourself know what is fashionable and what suits you. Use some really good compliments in your conversation and she will at least pay attention to you: “You are so easy to talk to. I feel like I could talk to you all day long." Women want to be interesting as much as they want to be beautiful. "I like your thought process." If she's not the smartest girl in the world (and she knows it), complimenting her intelligence can backfire. This phrase carries the same meaning, but certainly will not offend anyone. "You speak very boldly." Women are very principled and want men to notice their courage, even if it is of a slightly different kind.
2.2 Win her trust. You don't have to be her best friend, but show her why you should be trusted. Be there when she needs you. If she asks you to keep her secret, keep it. If you promise something, keep your promises.
Don't get into a relationship just for sex. She will put you on her black list of unreliable guys. Do not pressure her if she does not want to do something - she will only move away from you.
Impress her family if possible. The family probably means a lot to her and she wants to hear approval from them. Impress her family and win her trust. Dress nicely, show your good manners, and respect her parents' wishes.
2.3 Give her a small gift that she will appreciate. Give her confirmation of your feelings. Maybe she likes flowers or a pretty bookmark. If you don't know what to give her, try to find out. Here are a few meanings that women see in gifts:
The ring is devotion. You want endless love, like this ring is endless.
The portrait you painted is an inspiration. She is your muse; she makes you feel creative.
A soft toy is love. You want to hug her.
Flowers are beauty. You think she's beautiful and you want the whole world to know about it.
2.4 Start flirting. Find a way to start flirting with her a little. It will be hard at first, because you like her very, very much, but once you get to know her better, it becomes much easier.
Move on to touching. Touching in safe, neutral places will help you now. Avoid touching your thighs, abdomen, chest, and neck. Instead, when talking to her, as if by chance:
Touch your palm. You are talking about something and want to reinforce your point of view with physical contact.
Touch the shoulder. You know her a little better and you approve of her act or try to cheer her up.
Touch your back. You playfully tease her or sympathize with her.
Smile and make eye contact. A girl can tell a lot about your interest just by looking at you. Smiling is just as important. Smiling, share your good mood, and looking into her eyes will show her your confidence.
Make up jokes just for the two of you or learn how to playfully tease her. Jokes are easy to flirt with and will help you bond. Joke about any topic that connects the two of you.
When teasing her, make sure she knows it's just a joke. Wink at her to tell her it was sarcasm, or tell her you were joking. It is best to joke about what she does very well so that she does not have any doubts whether you are serious or not.
2.5 Be mysterious but accessible. Women like slightly mysterious men. You don't have to try very hard to do this - just don't tell her all the details of your life, don't brag about your successes, let other people admire you (and praise you) - but it's hard to do it right. At the same time, always be there for her. There is nothing worse than spending so much energy and then leaving her with nothing because you no longer have free time for her.
3. Final Stage
3.1 Meet and impress her friends. Women often wait for approval from their friends to show how happy they are and to hear their appreciation. So the approval of her friends could be the key to success. Don't skip this step!
Stay light-hearted, interested, and kind. If her friends tease and tease you, don't take it personally and laugh too. When the opportunity arises, ask her friends about their lives and be genuinely interested in them. Do nice things like help her friend hook up with your friend or cheer them up from time to time.
Don't be too cute and don't flirt all the time. You're here to impress her friends just like you impress her family. Let her not think that you might like one of her friends.
3.2 Ask her out. Once you're ready to take the final step, you'll need to ask her out on a date. A date would be the perfect opportunity for the two of you to learn more about each other and maybe even kiss for the first time.
When you ask her out on a date, let it be your routine. Just ask, "Hey, I've got a couple of tickets for that new movie, what are your plans for Friday night?" You don't have to call it a date. If she asks, however, be confident and tell her it's a date.
Do something exciting. An exciting date - an abandoned house, a park with a slide, or a sporting event - will help your body produce a very powerful hormone (oxytocin), which is responsible for feeling safe.
If the moment is right, kiss her. If you feel that she has doubts, it is better to kiss her on the second or third date. Keep the kiss short and sweet, and whatever you do, don't try to stick your tongue down her throat.
3.3 Let everything develop in its rhythm. If you are ready to plunge into the world of romance, then act. There are still chances that she will want to develop your relationship not as fast as you. This is, in principle, a test of how patient you can be with her and with her.
Don't make her do what she doesn't like. It may sound silly, but it will be better if you listen to her and not push.
3.4 Forget about your mistakes. In a relationship, you will make mistakes. The way you forgive them will show the woman who you are and help her truly love you.
Do not be afraid to apologize and admit guilt. When you make a mistake, pull yourself together and say, “Hey, I'm sorry. I shouldn't have said that. Don't let me do that again." Despite the prevailing opinion, admitting one's guilt is courageous, since for this you need to step over yourself.
It's also a good idea to let her win the fight, especially if she tries hard. Don't be provoked or manipulated, but it's best to end the fight in a way that makes her feel better. You'll be glad you let her win!
3.5 Be the person you want to be. In the end, you want to show her who you are in her soul, in her very depths, so that she can love you. If you pretend to be someone, she will only fall in love with your caricature. So do not be afraid to seem weak to her. There is a chance that she will love you for this.
Find time to see her often. Even if she lives far away, take advantage of modern technology. Be prepared to try a little.
Never speak ill of her friends, even if she will. Just be the listener she needs right now.
Do not make fun of anything that is dear to her. Believe in her, convince her that you will support her in all endeavors.
If you really love her, take the time to tell her so. Ask her what she thinks about the people who confessed their love to her. If she says that sometimes she would like to be told this, in every sense, act. But if she says it's weird and awkward, wait a bit.
Surprises don't have to be expensive.
Don't make her wait for your call! The girls don't like it.
Try not to quarrel over trifles. Of course, this will freshen up your relationship, but too many fights will make her wonder if it's worth it. On the other hand, she should not consider you a weakling. Be strong, but let her know that you have strong feelings for her.