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How to make a girl laugh

An effective courtship strategy that really works. If a girl finds you funny and fun, then she is much more likely to succumb to you!

Laughter! This is a courtship strategy that really works. If a girl finds you fun, then there's a better chance she won't resist your charms! In addition to smoothing out the differences between you, humor can help ease the pressure of a first date, reduce negative feelings about "I'm not good enough," and bring you closer. To make a girl laugh, try following these tips:

1. Grow

1.1 Think positively. A positive attitude is closely related to a sense of humor. Be happy and have a positive attitude towards everything around you, this will conquer her again and again. If you can, become a source of support when she has some problems, naturally she will reach out to you.

Try to find the positive in everyday situations. So, you will give the impression of a good, friendly person with an easy character, and girls like it.

Think of people who radiate vibes. If you still can't communicate easily with people, think about what you could use from what they do.

Kidding. If you want to be funny, then joke, sometimes tease her, but always be polite. Serious things will have to wait.

If you are in a bad mood or upset about something, don't show it, go through it yourself. If she gets the impression that you are overwhelmed by something, this is not a good start to a relationship! 1.2 Learn to be funny. Do you have an innate sense of humor? Do you know how to make people laugh? If not, it's time to learn it. First you need to find out what can make you laugh. Think of everything that you think might be funny and try it for yourself.

Don't try to be funny. Instead, try to see the humor in different things and use it. When you do this, you really become cheerful and start laughing sincerely. She will feel your sincerity and ability to perceive the world as a place full of joy. It is important!

1.3 Be natural. Being funny is innate, provided you have confidence in your sense of humor. Here are some tips on how to improve this side:

Use body language to convey humor. Your facial expression, body position, movements, and tone of voice affect how funny you look. Feel free to show your abilities to express something, make faces. Think of actors like Jim Carrey or bands like Monty Python.

Practice being funny. Observe the world around you and constantly try to come up with a joke in your head for a particular situation. The more often you do this, the easier and more natural you will show humor in a stressful situation.

After all, humor is easier and works better than a lot of jokes made up by other people.

Be prepared for defeat as well. Even comedians have hard days. Be prepared for the fact that your jokes will sometimes only cause a grimace on her face. Joke it off, laugh at the fact that your joke delivery system is broken. Don't say, "I can't joke." Maybe so, but it's not funny. She will agree and think to herself, "I'm bored with him now."

1.4. Tell funny stories where the main character is you. When reciting them, emphasize how your qualities helped you get out of difficult situations where others would simply pass.

Show yourself as a guy who sometimes misses, but quickly picks up and keeps trying until he reaches his goal. The ability to laugh at yourself and your shortcomings will show a girl that you are the kind of guy who can handle criticism and doesn't give up so quickly. In addition, if she understands that you are capable of making fun of yourself, it will be easier to make fun of her cute weaknesses when you find out about them, and she will not think that you are criticizing her. 2. Focus your attention on the girl

2.1 Respect her. By respecting a girl's personality and qualities, you begin to earn her trust. When there is trust, it is easier to communicate and easier to make her laugh. All girls are different and laugh at different things. What works with one is unlikely to work with another. Take the time to find out what works best for you.

If it turns out that nothing is funny for a girl, this is a signal that perhaps you are simply not suitable for each other. It could also mean that she is having a bad luck streak and nothing makes her happy. See how she reacts to the people around her. If he laughs at their jokes and doesn't think your jokes are funny, step aside.

2.2 Listen to her. To come up with something funny, you have to listen. Comedians watch everyone and everything around them to understand people. They record their observations, and then tell them to the public, expanding the side of life's trials.

If you listen carefully, you will know what she cares about, what she thinks, what she believes. All these observations will help you understand what she is laughing at. By listening, you will collect material in order to come up with something funny, and you will always have something to talk about. Just make sure that what you learn about her and are going to use in jokes is not something "sacred" for her.

2.3 Laugh with her. Laughter is contagious, so it won't be hard to do. If you laugh with her, it will lift you up in her eyes. If you find her fun, and her jokes, happiness, and laughter are associated with you, it will show her that you are special and try to fit in with her rhythm and sense of humor. Just like you want her to appreciate your sense of humor, she instinctively likes what you find and her jokes are funny.

Imitate her style of humor. If it's risky, for example, then stick with your style. Do it as much as you can, and don't forget about naturalness. If your humor is inherently cheerful and kind, then using dark humor will seem superfluous.

Of course, follow her example only when you are absolutely sure of her style of humor.

Find out what comedians or films she likes. Watch them together and laugh. You will be able to introduce her to your preferences when she is already quite sure that you are a cool guy.

Once you know her taste in comedy, try quoting lines from one of those shows. This will show her that you like her humor and it will add to your attraction!

3. Cause Laughter

3.1 Memorize jokes. They will help the beginner find the right words at the right time. They will help to make you laugh, but do not confuse witticisms with hackneyed phrases and never abuse them. You can find many jokes on the Internet, but here are some examples of how you can use such jokes:

Never frown, because someone might fall in love with your smile. If she's a little down, it will cheer her up and she'll know that you like it when she smiles.

When you reach the end of the rope, tie a knot and hold on. (Franklin D. Roosevelt) If something upsets her in life, with this phrase you will show that you care about her and make her laugh.

The knee is a device for finding furniture in your room. This will help make her laugh if she hits.

I used to be indecisive. Now I'm not sure. This can be used when one of you is having a hard time making a decision.

3.2 Fool around. There are a few things that can help you make her laugh. Of course, it all depends on how well you know this girl, and if she appreciates "tomfoolery"; and remember that the best joke is when you can laugh at yourself:

Touch it like a cat and meow. Ask to be stroked.

Make a face. Go to the photo booth together, make funny faces and take a picture. When you later look at the photo, you will surely laugh!

Answer her stupid questions without emotion. For example, if she asks, “Do you date often?” respond with something like this: “Not always, usually I spend all my time living my life imagining I have one” (chuckle). Remember to smile sincerely when you give this answer, and be prepared that this kind of answer may not have the desired effect if she thinks you are laughing at her.

Play dumb. In response to a question, look at her as if you do not know the answer and are struggling to understand what she asked you. But keep playing this game as long as it's funny.


Parody some funny moments from comedians like John Cleese or Rowan Atkinson, if it's not dangerous. Mimic their voices, facial expressions, or movements.

Ask her to let you do something really stupid, then do it.

Flirt with her while fooling around.

3.3 Tickle her. If you know her well enough, try tickling her. Tickling will help break down the barriers of laughter. It's hard not to laugh when you're being tickled. The main thing is that she should not be ticklish. It is unlikely that you will receive a reward if she cannot stand being tickled and you do not stop. Try this:

Ask her if she is ticklish on her feet.

Regardless of her answer, ask if you can verify it.

If she allows, take off her shoes and tickle her foot.

Rise higher. If she laughs and is happy, then everything is fine. Stop if you notice that she doesn't like being tickled and give her a chance to tickle you.

3.4. Do something funny together. Interesting activities with thrills will help generate laughter. It's up to you to decide what works best with your girlfriend, but there are options like going on a bike or scooter, a city tour, slides, visiting a city park, catching waves on the beach, or even ziplining off a bridge together if you like risk.. If it's something new and exciting, it's sure to make her laugh.

3.5 Find something that will make her laugh when you are not with her. Send her cute yet witty emails. The following suggestions will help make her laugh and also serve as conversation topics when you meet again:

Find a website full of funny pictures of cute, fluffy animals, like kittens in a shoe, pigs in boots, pandas, friendship between a cat and a dog, etc. Send her some of these pictures to cheer her up. Send her jokes about things you know will make her laugh. Look for such jokes on the Internet!

Send her your photos. Share with her links to sites you like.

4. Keep balance

4.1 Laughter should not hang in the air. The moment of transition from laughter to conversation is very important. You just told a joke, she laughed heartily... and then silence. Silence will negate all the good that humor has brought to the conversation. You should always have something in reserve.

For example, if you just cracked a joke and she laughed, at least be prepared to say something like, “So what do you like about your job?” Keep in mind that you don't have to joke all the time. If you overdo it with jokes, it will be boring and not fun at all. If you are not careful, then she will consider you not a fun guy, but just some kind of fool.

4.2 Avoid bitter sarcasm that will lower you in her eyes. Do not use jokes that border on insulting, they can be offensive or even rude. Avoid telling ethnic jokes or those that discriminate based on gender. These topics are quite difficult and at the best of times, and even more so, you should not touch on them until you know your girlfriend well enough!

Do not make fun of women, her friends or her family. And of course no jokes about weight or appearance.

Don't joke about her. No matter how funny and harmless you think such jokes are. In addition, do not laugh at her under any circumstances, unless you want to see her again.

Avoid speaking badly of people, even in the form of jokes. Not only because it's not funny to humiliate people, but also because she might think that someday you will switch to her too.

If you don't know her well, avoid sarcasm and dark humor. When you get to know her better, you will already know how she reacts to such humor. Whenever you want to say something like that, don't forget the saying of Agnes Replier that "humor brings insight and tolerance, irony brings deep and less friendly understanding." If there is any doubt, it is better to be friendly than overly smart.

4.3 Relax. Laughter appears spontaneously from funny situations and tries to show the best. And at the same time, there are times when it's not funny at all. Trust your instincts, they will tell you when not to try to make her laugh, for example, when something serious or sad happens.

In the intention to “make a girl laugh”, the main thing is desire. You can't force someone to do something if they don't want to, unless you force them, of course. But you are unlikely to do this if you want to get laughter as a result! If she thinks you're funny, that's great, if not, then you probably just need to rethink your tactics and introduce restrictions.

Try not to fool around too much.

Trying to be funny when you're not having fun at all can just tire you out and discourage you from spending time with this girl. Don't try too hard!

Laughter will come naturally if both of you are relaxed and enjoy each other's company.


Even if you are not going to date this or that girl, many of these tips can still come in handy when communicating with sisters, colleagues, girlfriends, etc..d. However, you have to remove the flirting!

Have a few signature phrases in store that she can easily remember and repeat.

Sometimes be bold in your humor. This might surprise her.

Wait a second and think of something funny. Or consider whether your joke would actually be funny!

Making a good impression is a difficult and risky business. The only way to impress her is with your humor. But don't let her know what you're trying to do.

Be careful when choosing funny phrases. Many of them have already been beaten and every Internet user knows them. If you're going to use a funny phrase, make sure it's new and appropriate for the situation.

Use news and current events for inspiration.

Watch a few stand-up shows to learn how to manage time. Record all the funny things that you can then use in communicating with her.

If the joke doesn't go well and she looks at you like you're an idiot, the key is to stay calm, smile, try to move the conversation to another topic, or crack another joke! She will forgive. Say something like, "You didn't like that joke? Listen to this!"

Don't listen to too heavy or sad music. Listen to relaxing music instead. The more exciting and inspiring it is, the better. Music affects mood, behavior and thoughts.


Don't say anything funny about her!

Don't say anything offensive! While this may be funny to some, it is not to most.

If you've been dating a girl for some time, don't joke about getting married. She may think that you are serious.

If you constantly joke around her, she may not take you seriously. Show her a serious side at times too.

Never laugh at your own joke first.

Before making fun of any hobby, find out what her favorite pastime is. Otherwise, you can just laugh at the occupation of her whole life.

Don't show her that you're trying your best. Otherwise, she may think that you lack self-confidence.

If you're just starting out with a girl, don't joke about sex.

Source: WH