Hope vs Despair

Stop hoping for miracles. They won't. And there will be no help either. Forces from above will not play on your side. Deal with it. There is no justice either. The good ones only win in movies, not in reality. How to get rid of hope and become successful?

“Every day we put our lives on hold. We postpone ourselves. Every now and again. But the trouble is that at some point in the race for the future, you suddenly look at your hands: inexorably aging, weak, infirm, and you understand that your “later” will never come. That it never happens to anyone. Lives, lives, looms somewhere on the horizon, generously stuffs with hope, and then suddenly turns into a hard “late” and comes through as a sinewy sentence of time on senile hands” Al Quation

So it will be with everyone who chooses hope, not despair.

All of us have faced a situation where there is no strength. When we feel like a victim of circumstances. When we want to be pitied. When we rely on help in a difficult situation. This hope for some strength, justice, God, parents, friends, strangers or a miracle. This hope at the same time consoles us in bitterness and destroys us...

Stop hoping for miracles. They won't. And there will be no help either. Forces from above will not play on your side. Deal with it. There is no justice either. The good ones only win in movies, not in reality. If your loved ones could help you or wanted to, they would have done it a long time ago. At work, a colleague will be promoted, not you. Face it. He is probably better than you at work or he has connections in the authorities. The girl you hopelessly court will never be yours. You will never get rich in this job by doing the same thing. You will not win a million in the lottery, and an inheritance from an unknown grandfather is not waiting for you. A relationship that is falling apart and sucks is not going to be perfect. Some of your dreams won't come true. This is also a fact. Deal with it. Things don't suddenly get better. But we hope for it and wait...

“Hope is a dangerous thing. Hope can drive a man crazy” The film “The Shawshank Redemption”

You still hope that someone owes you and someday will give it. Stop hoping for a miracle. Hope will ruin life. We hope for something incomprehensible and do nothing. But there will be no manna from heaven. These are illusions. We are stuck in the moment. Waiting for a fairy tale and wearing rose-colored glasses. We wait but do nothing. Say goodbye to hopes and dreams and get down to action!

You need to rely only on yourself. It's not because you have bad family or friends. The fact is that they gave you by virtue of their capabilities and desires. Nobody owes you anything. This is what you owe yourself. You have one life, and it will end faster than you can imagine.

Don't knock or force on closed doors. Look for another way. Somewhere there are open doors. New job, relationships, friends, dreams, plans, goals. Everything depends only on you. from your actions. Don't get stuck in the moment and don't freeze life. Hope is a sweet pill that makes life easier but leaves you in a swamp. Desperation saves. This is a bitter truth, but it wakes you up from your liturgical sleep. It forces you to act.

As long as you have hope, you will not achieve anything. Get rid of her. Become a desperate brave who does not need consolation. Let the squishy sit in a puddle of hope. Move forward. Don't expect help or miracles. You yourself have enough strength and skills.

You have you and you can handle it…

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