Carter Lowe Creator, entrepreneur, and self-care advocate
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Attractive male image

We are attracted to beautiful, well-groomed and sexy girls. Women, when choosing a companion, also pay a lot of attention to male appearance. What image to make to please girls?

Do your best!

First, I looked at myself and asked, “If I was the type of woman I want to attract (I like very hot, smart women), so that I could be forced to be with a man?”

Then I started reading, listening to tapes, going to seminars… you name it. And I started working on self-presentation.

I think it's very important to do the BEST YOU CAN DO.

Here's my rule: just because you don't have the right teeth doesn't mean you can't dress well, so take care of yourself.

Get yourself a cool haircut (it's better to ask the stylist what's trendy right now and what suits you).

Buy some decent clothes (don't tell me you don't have any money. Go to a secondhand store). If you do a few key things, they won't be necessary to HELP attract a woman, but they will help you avoid things that prevent you from being attractive so much that you don't even realize it.

Make no mistake, if you are interested in ATTRACTIVE WOMAN, it is better to realize right now that these things change you. You don't have to work 10 hours a week on this, but keep your body in order. You don't have to have perfect teeth, but make sure they are clean and your breath is fresh.

Personally, I think that if you are overweight and look like a groom, then you can take control of it. You should do it FOR YOURSELF. If not, then I must admit that you lack self-respect, in which case none of what I tell you can help.

Women notice things that most men don't. They notice if the belt fits your shoes. They notice what kind of food you like. They notice all the little things and then draw conclusions about you based on these details.

Therefore, learn how to take care of your shoes and keep them clean. Find out which colors go with which and what is currently being worn. It's worth it.

I wasn't "cool" when I first started, now I've learned to be. Huge difference. Am I saying that if you don't wear Nikes and you don't have cool hair, then you can't attract a woman? No. But remember the old expression: "And a blind pig accidentally finds a truffle."

And of course, do not go too far.

I tried a lot of different clothes in the past, until I started to look like a person who tries too hard. Now I wear casual nice clothes. I wear different Calvin Klein T-shirts with black jeans and quality black shoes. This look goes well with a good leather coat and is acceptable in almost any situation. You can get such an outfit for a couple or a few hundred bucks (for several sets).

My opinion: constantly try to improve something, even if it is about some small details.

In the past, I often noticed that at least once, when I went out into the street, some girl asked me for a “light”. I kept saying something like “I don't smoke” or “no” and left it. A couple of weeks ago I said “Yeah” and went to the SPECIAL lighter store to pick out the coolest lighter anyone has ever invented. I chose a torch with a very strong fire that looks like welding. And what do you think happened when I went outside with him? That's right... I was asked to light a cigarette... and then the reaction "Wow" followed, with which the conversation began.

A list of such random things includes:

Your nails should be short, clean and neatly trimmed.

The only place where hair should grow is the head. All hair must be neatly trimmed or removed. No hair in the snakes or nose. No bushes instead of eyebrows. No bushes on the pubis.

Teeth should be clean. Use a tongue brush and use it often. Floss for teeth. Mouthwash. Repair bad teeth. Do it.

Wash yourself in the shower three times. Dirt and smell do not leave the body if you just rinsed. Wash yourself specifically three times before you meet a woman.

Use a good deodorant (I don't like antiperspirants because they block your lymphatic system).

Feet, shoes and socks must be extra clean. Nobody likes the smell of feet.

Buy a good cologne. Try Dolce and Gabanna, Cerruti Image Gaultier or for men. And don't overdo it! Better no cologne at all than too much. Ideally, one or two puffs an hour before you are going to meet a woman.

Remember that women notice details and think that you act like this in everything.